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WHAT TEENS WORRY ABOUT

The teenage years 13 to 19 are the time of rapid growth and also this is the only time to change in every single thing in teens like physically, mentally and socially. Moreover, for few teenagers change is scary and for some it is like a fancy. They go through, and are expected to cope with hormonal changes, puberty, social, career and parental force and so on.

THE COMMON PROBLEMS IN YOUNG LIFE, DISCOVERING

·        Huge expectations

·        Hormones and puberty

·        Parents

·        Love

·        Privacy and Independence  

In defence of all youngsters out there, here’s the proof that those of us who are suffering. How to feel them the other side and that other side should be more understanding of them.

Huge expectations

In this era, wherever we go the people having expectations from us. Fail and get into university and we think life is over. Although, we’ll gather dust of all the person after failing, basically that is the message hammered home by teachers and parents. We are facing the dark future of no income and no pride results that directly affect our sleepless nights and serious spells of anxiety.

When at the end of the day, it’s not seems the end of the world if you don’t get the results you wanted.

 

Hormones and puberty

Teenagers aren’t awkward and confrontational by choice, while this pressure mounts against you to do well, our body is trolling us. One minute we’re angry, and the other minute we’re tearful and we just don’t know why. Science has proven that if we are treated that way like mood swings these are the signs of biological part of growing up.

Parents

Look, they try, but they can’t always get it right. Merely 10% of parents are realize what teens are going through and how it effects internally to youth what they are impose to us.

Situations modern youth going through:-

1.     Compel career of their own choice

2.     Raising concern of esteem study (if they are interested or not)

3.     Don’t get involved in love but teens most probably need it most in this age.

4.     Never sit with them and even don’t try to know what they are going through.

5.     Comparing with other child who do the best( look at “sharma ji ka ladka” got 1^st rank in IIT)

These are the things teens worry about from parents and never get too attached with them in this age.

 

Love

That first love is just agony isn’t it?  First love feelings towards person lead your heart on a bit of harsh journey and nothing matters from family situations to school work and the ratio of these students are 80%. Barely, 20% are facing some crisis and just because of that they give more importance to their career as compare to love or crush. While rest of teens longing for someone takes over your life and think you’ll never love someone so intensely again- and you probably right. When that first relationship breaks down you simply want to give up on life.

Privacy and independence

You get told to act more mature but you still tend to get treated like a kid. While a lot of the things for teens is necessary to over protective but there is lack of privacy for teenagers who are desperate to assert and enjoy some independence.

So, I hope you’ve enjoyed today’s post! Give me a like if you did and comment down below to let me know in the comments below if there’s anything you’d add to my list!

LOTS OF LOVE

BHUMIKA

19 THINGS I’VE LEARNED IN 19 YEARS.

This is 19!

Still acting like a kid, just with more responsibilities. I’m hopeful for a year of growth, health, learning and letting go of the stuff that doesn’t matter.

Cheers to that!

I don’t know according to my age what things I learned as I am growing but I know the nutshell of things which I never forget.

 So the 19 things I’ve learned in 19 years:

1.     Hobbies are fun

I find new hobby each month…..skating, swimming, reading, travelling, writing, blogging, acting, dance, drama, photography, watching movies, video editing and more. These hobbies helps me to make me happy although hobbies are not always same, from me it’s a different every month.

2.     Let your passion fly

 If that hobby turns into passion, literally go out for it. Now the hobby is turned into passion, my blog turned into out to be a creative outlet so I have a passion for writing and creating content for all of you.

3.     Don’t worry about what other people think about you

If someone has a problem with you, with your work, with your passion, that is not your problem. You are doing a great job, keep going. Don’t look back, look forward.

4.     Read books

Every single time when we read books we learn something new. Even if it’s once a year, you will learn something new about the world or yourself.

5.     Stand up for yourself

If you are in uncomfortable position, stand. You will feel much better than that.

 The Journey is not about the destination

What you learn along the way will be much more life changing than reaching the final destination.

7.     It’s okay to change for the better

If you want to stop partying that’s okay. If you want to give up dating and focus on you that is okay. If you want to give up on gluten that’s okay. You are who god created you to be, not what people created you to be.

8.     Learning to love yourself is a process

It might not happen ASAP, If might not happen in year but definitely one day the process of love yourself you scrutinize.

9.     Life is not a race

We all are winner when we believe ourselves. Let the other guy and girl get the promotion, let them run. You will have your moment. Trust the process and trust in yourself. You loves you unconditionally that you never know and you only leave you where you are.

      It’s okay to cry

Sometimes happen, and you want to cry and in the inner critic of you always say never cry, people should take benefit of you weakness, but if you cry once  you will strong so long for the same situation.

     Not everything needs a response.

So that girl said something dumb on Facebook. If you know your response will instigate an argument, just let it go. You ex messaged trying to starting problems, no response is the best response.

1    Love isn’t enough

Love from the lover and friends were not enough, the bond between friends and lover must be respected, careful.

 Set goals

It might be scary, but doing nothing is scarier. So whenever you decide anything in your life to complete never wait, get up and complete your vision.

     Parents are probably right

No matter parents are educated or not, they’ve been right about most of things.

1   Life doesn’t always goes as unplanned

Unexpected things happen in life but what we think it will never happen, and that’s make life more interesting.

1   Walk away from the argument

You are not your best self when you are angry, so whenever this situation will happen cool down first and then take decision.

 Speak kindly to yourself 

It matters, it affects you, and the people who look up to you will affected more than you.

1    Talk to people

Everyone has story and something to say, everyone gives you an experience ofDO there life you’ll not only learn a lot about life, but also about yourself.

            Laugh, especially at yourself

 We have a tendency to overthink things and stress about everything, but why? Being able to laugh at yourself is freeing.

So, I hope you’ve enjoyed today’s post! Give me a like if you did and comment down below to let me know in the comments below if there’s anything you’d add to my list!

LOTS OF LOVE

BHUMIKA